What happens when an elder reaches the point where he or she can no longer live independently and be safe at home? Must he/she move in with a son or daughter or vice versa? What if that is not feasible? What options exist to provide in-home support so the elder can “age in place”?

Here are a few examples of problems created by people who didn’t hire a professional or hired one that really didn’t know elder law.

Newspaper legal notices often reflect elders deeding their real estate to their children for a dollar. What you don’t see in the notice is that the elder generally retains a life estate. I never recommend that a client transfer 100% ownership. Why not?

I believe that death is not the worst thing to happen to an elder. A catastrophic illness or disease that saps your ability to enjoy life’s pleasure while costing you tens of thousands of dollars for care….that is a harder pill to swallow.

The older we get, the more obituaries we read of people our age, older or even younger. I am 58 years old and mortal. Death is inevitable for us all and is often preceded by disability.

The three core documents of an estate plan are the health care proxy, power of attorney and will. The first two are documents that anticipate that at some point you may be unable to make medical and financial decisions while alive but disabled.

Here are some common pitfalls and misconceptions about our laws that travel by word of mouth across backyard fences, across dining booths at the Blue Bonnet Diner and at church socials.

Very few of us enjoy contemplating disability and death. We know, however, that the former often happens and the latter always happens.

Estate planning: You need the three basic documents: Will, Power of Attorney and Health Care Proxy. The Power of Attorney is often more important than the Will. It gives power over your finances in the event you are disabled. It avoids cumbersome and expensive conservatorships.

The deceased rock music artist Prince is considered by many to have been a musical genius. He brokered many of his recording contracts, having little patience or interest in hiring attorneys. Along those lines, he chose not to engage in estate planning.

I have written columns in the past discussing irrevocable trusts and living trusts. Irrevocable trusts are good devices for protecting assets in the event of nursing home placement because the asset is not titled in the name of the individual and cannot be accessed by the elder.

There are generally two types of trusts used in estate planning: revocable or “living” trusts and irrevocable trusts. For this column I will discuss the simpler version, the revocable, or “living” trust.

The $15,000 figure is a number that many lay people are familiar with. And yet, it is the most commonly misconstrued area of estate planning and elder law.